Yeh always seems to happen to nice people doesnt it !! Theyre just bullies !! End of. So sorry youre going through this its not right ! But hold your own xx
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We have all done that you know ! I saw a post on Facebook that said - you dont reslise what you had until it’s gone … sad but true xx
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Sadly, they are not thinking of you or their father. They are thinking of themselves.
You would think nice people would have nice children but that is not always the case.
Lots of love,
Rose xx
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A few weeks ago I was very vulnerable got prescribed more sleeping tablets , now I am angry, how dare they , how dare they feel they are entitled ! I feel I was entitled to many more years with my husband I waited so long for , I feel robbed of Love and happiness not money and valuables x
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Do you know what that’s what my neighbour said , he only saw Nicks children at his funeral needless to say they never even set foot through your door even thought they only all live up the road ! He said he was struggling with the fact that they were his children ? He said how can they share the same DNA when Nick was so nice and caring x
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Know exactly what you mean ! Who cares about flipping money when you lost love of your life ? I still feel like that tbh … money really isnt important at a sad time in your life like this ? Shame on people who think it is !! I still wish he was here for me 18 months on to talk to and to cuddle up to … its just not fair is it ? Xx
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Yes my solicitor is on it , but there was me thinking maybe they would have a little bit of contact with me now their father has gone and NO they just want his “stuff” not interested in his memory x
Greed , selfishness … changes people ! Theres more of it about than you realise sadly … x
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No I am dreading all the “firsts “ our wedding anniversary September , Christmas and it’s also my birthday 5days after Xmas day , the thought of it without him is like “what’s the point “? X
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I have the same with one of Rogers boys. There’s no money involved, Roger didn’t have any. He is just a nasty man who is only interested in himself. He didn’t come to see his Father until 2 hours after he died, then acted shocked. He had been told just how ill his Dad was and knew he was in the Hospice. He didn’t speak to me then and when he turned up at the funeral (no one knew whether he was coming or not) he didn’t even speak to me. No loss to me but I just wish for Rogers sake he had bothered to come and see him. He didnt even text to see how he was. I think if there had been money it might have been different but now I never have to have anything to do with him again
Roger’s other 2 sons have been lovely.
Sorry that was a bit of a rant, but good to get it off my chest.
Although nothing like the struggle you’re having.
Sending love and hugs
Liz x x
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Oh it’s good to rant I can’t write the word that I referred his three kids to ! Age 42-36 the daughter is the eldest she looks so sweet tiny petite little blonde thing , pretty on the outside and so ugly on the inside I have found that out ! X
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Yeh beautt is only skin deep isnt it ? But then again even not very nice looking people can be awful as well xx
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They can and you dont ralise just how nasty and cold ppl can be until things happen. I have brothers and a sister a daughter and a son. And yet i have no one because i have been told that this is my new normal and i have to get on with it. I have not seen my son or brothers since i lostGrac2 weeks today i have seen my sister once. My daughter is very matter of fact and because i keep crying said naybe itcwould be better if i didnt have my grandaughter Daisy as it was upsetting her. Xxxx
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Ooh yeh ive had that too ! People are really selfish and really horrible ! And just dont realise what a huge thing this is for us ! They will when it happens to them!! Xx
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I have always been there for each and everyone of mine, but i have learnt i am not important enough for them to care. I honestly thought i would have had some support but know i am very much alone and that hurts. X
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I think sometimes they just dont realise. I have 2 children in their 30s. For the week after funeral they were great. Then contact lessened, now just occasional phone call or whtsapp. Its not that they dont care, but their lives are so busy and i think im some way down their list of priorities.
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that made me laugh for the day !
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I know the feeling , and it’s not nice is it x
All I want is my steve back I don’t want money I want him but I know that’s not going to happen.so I guess I just have to wait and hope for my time to come and that I’m not on my own for to long
I feel I have no future and all our dreams and plans are not going to happen I’m very sad and miserable
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Sending a big hug xx