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Martin 2.it looks fantastic. Also have a honda ntv600 revere as well. Looking forward to getting back out there .been too long for me and I know sue would want me to be out there again
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Hello Martyn2 my husband Pat was mad on motorbikes everytime there was a show of bikers we’d go some fantastic bikes we didn’t have one but the only thing he wanted to do was him and me on a trike riding down the Califonia coast with music playing ‘Born to be Wild’
A sight to see was at the Hoover Dam loads of bikers parked up in all there gear not young may I add but the bikes were amazing you take care
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Jennison1946 hello.aaw that would have been a fantastic experience for you both.my gorgeous beautiful late wife sue went on the back of mine twice years ago. But with sue having a spinal problem called cauda equina meant she couldn’t risk it .but sue was very supportive of me even after loosing my right leg below the knee after my right ankle collapsed. I offered to give up my bikes but she told me that if I did she would come back and haunt me lol x
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Yeh in this situation i have found having kids not a lot of help tbh. My son was good for about a month and then they just seem to want to get on with their life … i wish it was that easy for us ! Xx
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Hi , how is everyone doing , the weather here miserable today . Doesn’t help does it . Can’t believe it’s a week since valentine’s day , and we all survived it , in our own way . The weeks just still keep coming along , to me making Chris seem further away from me . Sending you all hugs 
x
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Valentine’s wasn’t great - but still here
Time keeps going on, as does life, whether you want it to or not
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Hi @Broken2222
Yes time moves on and we survive somehow.
I feel the same moving further away from my husband. Never out of my memories always with me but time moving on and days months go by. The loneliness and loss never seems to leave always there waiting to reappear again.
Sending strength and hugs too.
Lynne x
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So true , the first year that Chris died , I really didn’t want to be here, I would beg and plead with him to come and get me . I really would still rather not be here, but have realised , I just have to get on with it , best and worst way I can . X
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Oh yes , the loneliness is so hard . I still have my son and his girlfriend living with me , but it’s more like bedsit land , they are in their bedroom most of the time , I’m in mine most of the time . Even when my sisters and husbands come to visit (not very often ) it makes me feel more alone . Me on my own . And of course when they go home together, I’m left sitting so alone just longing for my happy life back x
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Well do think I’ll be coming off here we all going through the loss an as I’m reading we all in the same boat starts my mind thinking I no 2 months tina gone x I’m not living I’m just surviving for what tried to be perfect as I can but all show lost empty lonely. No one to listen or talk to x just don’t seem to be me don’t think I’ll ever be again
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I spend most of my time on my own just looking out the window . It is very lonely and when I do see people it’s very hard when they go and leave you again .Its only been 4 months so I’m hoping that things can only get a bit better at least . If I go for a walk I end up crying all the time because he’s not with me I find it very hard to carry on
We just have to try find the strength to carry on a day at a time sending hugs to all
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Hi Pam yep I’m a man an men don’t cry if only they new x
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@Martin2 so sorry you feel like this ,2 months it’s still so raw for you . Yes you will just be existing at the moment . It’s so hard not having the comfort of your partner to talk to and listen to . Heartbreaking . Some people do find happiness in their life again , whatever way . I think we will never be the same person ,how can we ,when grief has touched us in a way that only we know. I know there is a lot of support on this site , sorry but maybe I’m the wrong person to listen to . Please look after yourself x
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Hi martin2
I have to let the tears out even if I’m walking down the high street with people looking at me I just can’t hold it in .
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Hi everyone I think we all just exist and try to get through that day, looking at my husband’s photos last night it just seemed like I was looking at photos of someone from along time ago but he’s been gone only 10 months and I feel it’s an eternity and I’m moving forward and leaving him behind I know I’ll never be the same person I was but I am trying you all take care
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Martin2 .its been just over year since I lost my gorgeous beautiful late wife sue.this forum is a big help to me.some days are better than others but I made sue a promise to carry on fighting for life and yes i have bad days but then i remember the good times we had together and that helps me to battle on .take a step back for a bit as it may help
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It does seem so long ago since they were here doesnt it ? 14 months for me but seems like a lifetime. Will we ever get a crack at a bit of happiness again ? I hope so … its what keeps me going. I know he would want me to find some happiness but its so hard to find isnt it ? Xx
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Deb5 definitely
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