Yeh very true … to see it in writing too 
i hate thinking about those last few weeks … too sad x
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Yeh the sadness … i saw it too in my lovely husbands eyes ! They were so brave you know ! So bloody brave … god love em. But theyre at peace now … just think of it like that … x
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Yeh its true they are … i believe that strongly x
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Absolutely no doubt in my mind that its true …
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@Deb5 yes that’s the worst thing waking up and remembering he’s gone . I hope things will get easier for us
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@MemoriesOfUs totally heartbreaking , seeing what your partner had wrote, yes there are no words to describe how you must of felt . Sending hugs X
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It is isnt it ? Sometimes i jump … when i realise hes not here … its awful but other days im ok and see to my naughty puppy (lol) and take her a walk… but on those bad days its awful it must get a bit easier because i dont get that as much as i did at beginning, i get distracted some days xx
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Don’t have a naughty puppy - just an attention seeking cat, he used to sleep on her bed in the day and her chair at night! He loves being near people! He used to cheer her up and keep her company!
He’s such lovely company
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Yeh i cried a lot and poor little puppy had to sit there and watch me cry but i found her a disistraction from my misery and she kept me busy but it was hard yeh . And they are so good for getting you out arent they. I made a couple of good friends cos of my dog xx
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@Ilovehorses it hit me hard, esp as I wasn’t expecting it - was looking for passwords
Sorry for your losses 
Same principle to what we’re going through with grief and no one understands until they’ve been there - no one can understand what that person is going through facing their own mortality with a terminal illness, foregoing the pain and sickness of the disease itself
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Hi everybody sorry for your loss I don’t have a dog but both my son and daughter do and what a distraction they are my sons dog is a British bull dog when I cry he lays his head on my knee and then licks me my daughters dog a Shiatsu I dog sit for him and he follows me everywhere although he’s 13 this year he likes to play he still thinks he’s a puppy and loves to cuddle upto me on the settee they certainly help me through really bad days
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Our friends have a beautiful springer spaniel - hes a lovely boy and my wife was interested in the idea of a dog but it wasn’t practical for us, I was working and looking after her and looking after and walking a dog too wasn’t viable but we adopted Sammy - a beautiful 10kG Maine Coon cat and he has such a lovely temperament and was great comfort for my wife and I and still is for me …
He doesnt ask stupid questions or make stupid suggestions and all he wants is food, cuddles and company … pets can be such a godsend at any time but especially at difficult times like these … he’s just 4 and quite playful too
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Aw …that’s lovely. Dogs are so faithful and they know when youre sad. Better than some humans if u ask me ! Lol x
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Deb5 definitely true dogs are better than some humans. Teddy n George both know when i feel down .love them both to bits
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Feeling really alone without him today … its just so hard isnt it without that person you loved … i never thought it was gonna be this hard you know mind you i only had bloody 6 weeks to get my head around it that my lovely husband wasnt gonna be here anymore
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Hi Deb5 your so right it is lonely without them and Im sorry for your loss I miss my husband so much we just had hours he was rushed to A&E couldn’t believe what we were told he wouldn’t last the day total shock and disbelief, but my eldest grandaughter has taken me out for lunch today which was nice to have company the minute I stepped through the door the the tears flooded as I always imagine he’ll be here when I get home
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Thats nice. My family have been pathetic tbh … ok for a while but gets a bit boring after a while doesnt it being nice to mother !! Huh. Shame i didnt get bored with them when i was bringing them up isnt it !!just had enough of people today and their crap attitude tbh … x
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You are so right I think that’s my daughters attitude I’m getting boring now and your so right they only want you when they need something my husband used to say that, our daughter doesn’t want to talk about her dad can’t cope with me crying but when she needs something I get a message how they change you take care
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Hi @Deb5
Thought it was just me family who csnt bother to contact you.
I have only seen my daughter once in the 8 months (see stays 1hr away by car) and i went by train 3hrs.
Families 
Take care
Look after yourself
Ly ne 
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Thanks @Galaxy75 good tonknow its not just me then . Im having a sad day today. They really are a disgrace this generation … they just dont care do they ? Its all about them xx