Just changed the fabric of society.
It’s all identity politics and need to belong and so easily brain washed
I guess it’s not a new phenomenon - you had the religious cults in the 80’s and cult mass suicides because some narcissistic cult leader told them to.
Difference is, it wasn’t so easy to get access to an audience then - social media, one influencer can create a single video on tik tok and get access to an audience of millions
Not quarantined anymore
And it’s just gone exponentially viral
I know just what you mean … half the time there seems no point to anything does there ? I just been on phone to my poor mum in tears ! Jeez what a life ! Xx
My mum has just said that … she said theyre brainwashed … i also think theres a lack of morals now and of caring … they just care about themselves . Thats all … awful, awful world. I think my husband is best off out of it xx
Yeah it’s easier to just stay in and watch TV - such an effort to do anything these days
She always used to force me to go to park or a drive to get out on weekends if we had nothing planned, always moaned about it, but always liked just going out with no specific purpose, just two of us, wherever wind took us
You need to wait till you’re ready - there’s a finality to interring ashes
I’m glad I did it - it gave me a special place to go, but you have to be ready
@MemoriesOfUs Yes I miss those drives in the car so much , just the being together, quality time with our partners, I remember one night he dashed in from work and told me to get in the car , of course I was moaning I had this and that to do , but I went , he wanted to show me the sunsetting . I always went on about wanting to see a beautiful sunset . He was such a special man , always wanting to make me happy . I miss him and the happiness he gave me so so much x
Lol … yeh youre funny it really is entitlement isnt it ? And the illusion they have that they are better than everybody else ! Jeez … we werent brought up like that were we ? Xx
Neither were mine martyn but that’s how they have become as they have got older ;( so it must be a society thing … theyre so very important dont you know ! Never mind i lost rhe one person who was my world - as long as theyre alright jack !! X
@Ilovehorses I scattered half of her ashes at favourite park and interred the other half
Took ages to scatter the ashes - I wanted to do it on a Saturday at 7:45pm - when she passed - but was always raining or windy or something
Finally found a reasonable evening, apart from it being pitch black at that time
I respect people’s faith beliefs and their rights (I spent 20 years working in ME & SEA and have met so many lovely Muslim people, so generous, kind and caring people! 99.99% are peace loving caring people
@Ilovehorses I kept a small portion of ashes - put some in an urn bracelet - and left just enough in small urn by bed so she’s still there, symbolically
xx
it really is entitlement isnt it ? And the illusion they have that they are better than everybody else ! Jeez … we werent brought up like that were we ? Xx
we had to deal with real problems back in those days
