Hi i looked for it too carnt see it though .I left a message on there where i live ,ive been on this site a few months now and i know some people have met up but although ive pm and tried ive not met up with anyone has yet but hope too next year .Some of us dont drive and i think that can be a problem .Now ive lost my partner in April the lonliness and isolation doasnt get any better .Some days you just want to give up xx
If you click the title âwhere are we fromâ above it will take you to the post
Hi Folks,
FYI: The post âWhere are we fromâ is under the category âCoping with Bereavementâ.
I think itâs a great idea . I live in swinton Rotherham
Positive for COVID now. Throat on fire cough. So just looking after myself like lots people now.
My husband would have got shopping and some mags to cheer me up although had he not died as an amputee things would have been different.
Jol i used to live in Mexborough
Jol in goole now .lived in the flats in james Street
Hope you feel better soon enorac.i,m a right below knee amputee
Thank you for kind wishes. Comes and goes having to keep gargling with salt water, paracetol, honey and lemon, strepsils, lots water.
If you are an amputee how do you cope?
My husband fell out of bed a week after his operation and next day died. It is anniversary of his funeral today. So thinking about that.
I never thought of it before when parents and baby died. But guess it is is different each loss. Was recalling my son trying to struggle as we had to face the funeral. He has been a bit worried I am ill. I worry for him. Think if my husband was looking down he would want to reassure him.
Gp said as have had boosters should be ok.
That was a relief when you are on your own u worry.
Enorac i,m a right below knee amputee since 2019.have some days better than others
I agree with you. I am being told who I should spend Christmas with, people I donât even know very well. I should put on a brave face and enjoy myself for their sakes. Well you know what you can do !,!,
Hi
We need to âget through this long stretch the best we can and how we can
Folks should realise that
They donât
I canât put a face on never have done
Everything is geared up to the perfect family Christmas
Is there such a thing
I want to go to sleep and wake up when itâs all over
But then wake up to what
More of this horrendous mental torture of being and the overwhelming feeling of alone
We have to survive for our loved ones sake
But do we?
Xxâ
@Bess1 its the most awful thing to be so happy and it all gone in an instant . This is going to be a difficult time as Christmas is such an important time for everyone . I am numb to it . I think going away is the best thing for me . My hope is that you can get through it all . Take each day as it comes
Enorac it can be a struggle with me being a right below knee amputee since 2019.the day of sues funeral everyone was trying to get me to use a wheelchair but I insisted on walking in .yes I struggled with it but I couldnât face being in a chair and family was and is still very supportive to me especially now that other issues are coming up with being an amputee
I feel the same